The show premiered on streaming Wednesday, July 10, 2024, and one of the couples who said “yes” has separated.
What Happened After the “Yes” and “No” of “Love is Blind Brazil 4” on Netflix?
The special “Reunion” episode, available on Netflix since the early hours of Wednesday (10th), provides the answers. Hosts Camila Queiroz and Klebber Toledo gathered the main couples from the fourth season to update fans with more love—or drama.
This fourth season brought together men and women who had previously experienced a failed marriage or engagement, hence the name “A Fresh Start.”
Who Said Yes
Three couples got married:
- Architect Ingrid, 33, and personal trainer Leandro, 32.
- Lawyer Renata, 33, and entrepreneur Alexandre, 34.
- Lawyers Vanessa, 33, and Leonardo, 34.
Who Said No
- Banker Marília, 37, and traffic manager Patrick, 32.
Who Quit
- Before reaching the altar, event director Ariela, 34, and security guard Evandro, 35, dropped out of the experiment.
At the Reunion… Who’s Still Married
- Renata and Alexandre
- Vanessa and Leonardo
Who Separated
- Ingrid and Leandro
Why Did Ingrid and Leandro Separate?
In the “Reunion,” the architect explained the reason for the separation. According to her, the personal trainer tried to maintain the relationship in a “dirty” and “filthy” way, and for that, she “disgusts” him.
“When I chose you as my husband, I thought that since you had three sisters, you would know what not to do. You didn’t. You disrespected me multiple times. I protected you every day in the reality show, from day one, from the honeymoon. For those in doubt, the sexual problem was Leandro’s. Leandro was impotent,” she said, referring to the sexual issues that emerged during the honeymoon phase.
Ingrid continued addressing Leandro:
“I understood, I supported you as a man, as a Black man, breaking the stereotype that a Black man must always be ready for good sex, just like a Black woman. But when we went to my house, you wanted to solve it alone, Leandro. I told you: ‘Go to therapy. I will wait. I will be patient with you, and when all this is over and settled, I will still be here waiting for you. We will reconnect. We will do couples therapy, and we will reconnect.’ What did you do, Leandro? Do you remember? You waited for me to fall asleep. First, I slept naked, then I slept in panties, then I started sleeping in pajamas, and then I took the pillow and slept on my couch, avoiding you in my bed, in my room, in my house. You didn’t respect me any day, that’s why I broke up with you. On the day my daughters found me on the floor having a panic attack, begging you not to touch my body, I asked you not to touch me. I asked more than once, Leandro, not to touch me, and you didn’t respect me. You didn’t listen to me. You wanted to solve your erectile problem yourself. It was your ego. It was your lies. Because you just wanted to keep that marriage in your dirty and filthy way.”
The personal trainer admitted the relationship was unhealthy:
“When I joined the show, we started a relationship, and it was never friendly, never truly healthy. We never really connected. Our sexual relationship was something that affected me a lot. At one point, I got tested, sought help, tried to understand what was happening. We found out it wasn’t a physical problem. It was a psychological problem. I felt we were not 100%, but I was completely in love with her. Totally involved. She is someone who has helped me a lot, someone I love, and someone with whom I saw a future. My ‘yes’ was always sincere; I never doubted my ‘yes.’ At times, I noticed Ingrid was uncertain, like ‘yes or no, yes or no.’ Was there that feeling of ‘Do I love Leandro enough to really want to stay with him for the rest of my life?’ Could we understand this, the problems each one was bringing?”
Leandro took the opportunity to apologize.
“On the sexual part, I never claimed to be right. Yes, I was wrong in trying to solve a problem in our relationship, which was the main issue of you saying, ‘50% of the relationship is sex; we need to fix this.’ I sought help, yes, but things are not that quick. By the time I was already working on it, our relationship was already really bad. The sexual part was our problem, yes, with me thinking this would solve the relationship problem. And then ego took over, and I thought if I solved this, the relationship would thrive. I apologize as I have already apologized many times. I understand what my mistake was, but I also understand that a relationship is built by two. Our relationship didn’t end that week. Our relationship had already ended; you just didn’t have the courage to say you didn’t want it anymore.”
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